Have you ever had words of praise for your husband come to your mind...and yet, you didn't speak them? I believe God is constantly putting words of encouragement in our minds. We may even think on them a bit. But what holds us back from actually saying them?
We may think that it will give him the big head. I had a mentor tell me one time that most pastors have a pretty big ego. I contend they mostly try to appear confident...to be a leader. I think most are really little boys on the inside needing lots of encouragement. They fear failure. And they really need our love, respect, and encouragement.
I challenge you to begin noticing when those thoughts come into your mind and then begin putting those thoughts into words. I believe it's the work of the Holy Spirit. His intent is for you to build up your husband. We may think we're doing well just thinking nice things about our pastor-husbands. But they need encouragement. And the best person to build them up is you. Let those encouraging words loose--and watch the building-up begin!!
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